December 20, 2009
I get so flustered now when it’s time to say goodbye to someone I actually like. Do I say “Happy Holidays” or will they think I’ve joined the forces that are attacking Christmas. Friday I actually said “Happy Merry Christmas” to a friend who I know is a devout Christian.
What is wrong with saying “Happy Holidays?” Even if you’re Christian? It’s not like when I say “Happy Holidays” I’m negating Christmas. Christmas is a holiday after all and I am wishing you happiness on that holiday, right?
So, I wondered … what would Jesus do?
Not like I would actually know, especially since I haven’t been to church for several months (Thanks Pastor Ron for keeping me on the mailing list). The problem becomes more troublesome since Jesus never mentions how to behave during the celebration of his birth. I wonder if the apostles threw him some righteous birthday parties. They were probably too busy trying to figure out the ten virgin parable and wondering if they should go to market or not.
I understand that it is difficult to see traditions change. At our local school holiday festival, “Away in the Manger” was definitely not on the song list. Yes, I was disappointed since I actually know the words to this song, but I also enjoyed the songs I didn’t know, and couldn’t sing along with seeing as how the music was much too difficult for me. I guess the message was that this was NOT a sing along.
But December should be a sing along, or at least a holiday along. Any reason to spend time with family and friends, have a day off work and eat lots – elastic waist pants lots – has to be a good thing, whether you call it Christmas, Kwanzaa, or Hanukkah. And, wishing someone “Happy Holidays” is a respectful way to let those around you know that you’re just happy they also get time to hang out and eat.
The only attacking of Christmas I plan on doing is the attacking of wrapping paper and stuffing.
No plans here to take the Christ out of Christmas or the zaa out of Kwanzaa or even the Han out of Hanukkah. Lots of plans here to put the holi into the holidays, because time spent with people we love makes us whole and is divine.
This week, I will wish everyone Happy Holidays!
